Simple tools for everyday stresses

Sometimes earthly, superficial, day to day stresses can add up. Being spiritual people, we don’t always honor our feelings when it comes to superficial events with the mind set, in the bigger picture, it’s not a big deal. It is if we feel it in the first place, it can only be relieved when we face how we feel without judgement. Our feelings are our individual guidance, they are specifically for each, they tell our story. Like all of us, we are different, our stories are different, events allow us to feel whichever way our story is written. There is no right or wrong with feelings, EVER, they are guidance. And there are tools to remove our feelings if we don’t like the ones we are having. It doesn’t start with changing others, it starts within, a different perspective, understanding, and choice. We can choose to change any feeling in an instant with various tools.
Here is a list of quick and simple techniques that can help mitigate stress in the moment.
1. always honor how you feel without judgement
2. breathe, sometimes that’s all it takes
3. talk to someone who is a good listener. there is nothing more unsatisfactory than having your story topped! it does not make your feel better in the moment
4. a lot of us don’t have time to be still and meditate, but we can be still for 60 seconds. close your eyes. look at your eye lids like you’re watching a movie. 60 seconds is all it takes to stop the mind chatter, breathing as you watch your movie. please do not try to make sense of what you’re seeing, it won’t. Spirit will bring what you received in the appropriate time.
5. scribble your intention on a piece of paper underneath a lit candle allowing Spirit to burn it up
6. right before sleep, ask for intention to be healed while you sleep. i like to do this one in 7’s
7. be in the moment, focus on the task at hand. this will stop our minds from jumping around
8. draw an imaginary arch of light around you focusing on the female nurturing energy from the universe. this is powerful since everyone one around you benefits.
9. use nature sounds in the back ground, whatever your preference
10. ask Spirit to give you messages through music. You will hear what you need in the moment.
11. ask Spirit for whatever it is you need to see/hear, pick up a book, open it randomly until you feel better.
All of these take less than 60 seconds, stopping the mind chatter, keeping us in the moment which in itself is a stress reliever.

The energy of love and how it heals

We have different up bringings, forming different belief systems, experiences and outcomes, make us who we are today. Most of us have never learned how to love ourselves and wouldn’t even know where to start. We all know what it feels like to be loved by our parents, children, siblings, spouses, partners, and have all experienced love in some form. We like how it makes us feel, want more of it, so we look to someone else to love us to feel good. With that brings relationships that don’t work, since we’re looking for the wrong reason. With the changing of times, beliefs, and perceptions, we can start loving ourselves with forgiveness. Forgiveness of our parents,¬† perceptions of how we were treated as a child, relationships that didn’t work, how others treat us, jobs lost, not enough money, etc. All leave a film inside blocking how we feel about us. Choosing to be accepting of ourselves just the way we are, letting go of our judgements of what if, if only, can free us to purely love ourselves. Everyone loves a newborn, they’re pure, life hasn’t touched them yet. We are still that, all of us. For a couple of days, try tapping into the purest part of you, how pure you were when born, FEEL it. It’s not an easy task, but with practice,¬† the outside “stuff” on us, blocking how we feel about ourselves, can be healed. It’s only energy and perception, it can be healed instantaneously with choice. Coming from there, we attract more love, we are treated with respect, our life outside mirrors how we feel inside. It’s quite amazing! We all want and deserve it, and are worth the time to learn it. The great thing is anyone and all can do it!

Truth and Integrity

Let go of everything inauthentic, and all activities that do not mirror your highest intentions for yourself. If something in your life isn’t working, be willing to release it to God, Goddess, All That Is, Spirit…. When we open our hands and release unhealthful situations, the Divine light can enter. Miracles always follow when we surrender troubling conditions. You’ll find that the job, relationships, health issue answers, or other circumstances heal rapidly in ways that you could never have imagined. All along the way, you’ll be guided to actions that will either help you replace the situation with something better, or heal it entirely. Keeping your focus in the moment tremendously helps move through the changes quickly, easily, and elegantly. There is a power and light inside that grows brighter when when you decide to “be true to you”.